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Business advice from a math teacher

Posted in Business, Personal Development by elephanthunters on May 20, 2010

Mr. G

There wasn’t a seventh grader in the world who wasn’t scared of Mr. Garcia.  If our memories are crystallized in direct proportion to our fear, then I must have been especially afraid the day I walked into his classroom for the first time.  I remember every poster on the wall, the layout of the room, the notes on the chalk board. I can almost smell the pencil shavings that seemed helplessly out of place below the broken, wall mount pencil sharpener in the back of the room.  I sat next to Rachel Wilson.  She was scared too.

Mr. Garcia’s reputation preceded him.  Not only was he our math teacher, but he was the Jr. High principle, and a marine to boot.  I remember crying when I went home that night because Mr. Garcia told me that I would need a red pen for his class, and all I had was a red pencil.  His persona just seemed to carry an intimidating amount of weight.  There are many things I remember about Mr. Garcia, but one thing I will never forget is the speech he gave that first day of class to a room full of budding, naive seventh graders.  He told us to listen very closely, because over the next hour he was going to give us everything we needed to know about how to succeed in the seventh grade.  He went on to give a series of speeches, well, actually it was all one speech, just rehashed about 40 times.  This was the message:

Students! Know where you are going. Have what you need. Be on time.

If you can do this, you’re going to be just fine.

Not just for seventh graders

Looking back now, I realize that Mr. Garcia was actually a very caring and compassionate man.  I suppose it is possible for a seventh grader to over dramatize the appropriate level of fear to experience when meeting a new math teacher.  Little did I know the nugget of advice Mr. Garcia gave me that day would become one of the most useful tools in my journey through life.  This mantra is simple enough for a seventh grader to understand.  Be in your seat when the bell rings isn’t really that complicated.  However, it’s amazing how many grown ups still haven’t ingested these simple truths into their approach to life.

  1. Know where you’re going. You have to know where you’re going before you can get there.  I’ve always set goals.  I haven’t always hit them, but as long as I can remember I’ve set them in each area of my life.  I’m certain that if I skipped this step, I would have very few accomplishments to show for it. If you don’t know where you are going, you’ll still end up somewhere – you just won’t be the one driving.
  2. Have what you need. Knowledge is everywhere for the taking.  In our world today, there are no excuse for being unprepared.  Telling the teacher you left your book in the locker might not have been that detrimental in the seventh grade, but you don’t get many second chances on legitimate opportunities when your 34 years old.
  3. Be on time. Not just on time for work each day.  On time for life.  Wayne Gretzky spoke of his strategy to skate to where the puck was going to be, instead of where it is.  When opportunity arises, it’s too late to prepare.  In other words, you better know how long the walk is to the next class down the hall before you stop to chat with your friends.

Take a look at anyone who is consistently struggling to move forward in life, and chances are they’re missing the mark on at least one of these key pillars. I’m thankful for the Mr. Garcias in my life who took the time to mentor me, and teach me life lessons before I even understood what they were.  We can never fully appreciate the sacrifices people like this make, so that we can become something more than we ever would have on our own.


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  1. CareySue Vega said, on May 20, 2010 at 10:07 am

    Love, Love, LOVE this post!!!! What a great story… and how it’s so applies to every stage of life. Thank you for relaying Mr. Garcia’s message and reminding us to be prepared! Have a plan, research and show up… on time!

  2. Elmer said, on May 20, 2010 at 11:02 am

    This reminds me a bit of the instructions we got as new recruits in the Army from our Drill Instructors: Be at the right place at the right time in the right uniform.

    The best messages in life are often the simplest. I, too, am grateful for those like Mr. Garcia who helped me along in similar fashion.

    • elephanthunters said, on May 20, 2010 at 1:11 pm

      another great, simple, mantra for sure

  3. Brad Copeland said, on May 20, 2010 at 11:53 am

    Good thoughts. One point of clarification, I believe Mr. G was in the Navy. It was Mr. Cheek who was a Marine.

    • elephanthunters said, on May 20, 2010 at 1:09 pm

      ooo, good catch. sorry Mr. G

  4. Evan T said, on May 20, 2010 at 1:12 pm

    It was Navy. I remember he said it stood for: Never Again Volunteer Yourself.

    • elephanthunters said, on May 20, 2010 at 1:14 pm

      well, i guess i totally botched that one. either way – i still cried the day i met him.

  5. Ron said, on May 21, 2010 at 2:35 pm

    Thank you for sharing Mr G I am using mantra in my e-mail signature!

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